Anonymous asked : Mr Ray, I'm 42. It feels like there is still a big love out there for me. We are talking a big, rolling boil, forgetting to eat, capital L kind of love. What I have is a lovely, gentle simmer, small l, companionable kind of love. Any suggestions? Ps. No current partners were harmed in the writing of this email.
Anonymous asked : Dear Mulbert, if life means different things to every person, doesn't that therefore suggest that life has no inherent meaning and, moreover, life is meaningless? This confuses me frequently... Why should I continue without purpose, in the face of the necessary struggle it takes to survive? Thanks xx